Dear Steve and Shirley,
I'm 44 years old, and my boyfriend is 58. I moved in with him after we dated for three months. He believes it was love at first sight, and I was beginning to think that until I met his 40-year-old son. When my boyfriend asked me to move in, his son had a problem with it, and I would hear my boyfriend arguing with him on the phone. He thought his dad was moving too fast, and he told him that I'm a gold digger. My boyfriend is not rich at all, but he's financially stable, so of course that was appealing to me. I kept suggesting that my boyfriend's son come by the house to meet me, but he refused to come over.
Then, out of the blue, he started following me on Instagram. I figured that was a start, so I followed him back. Days later, he DM-ed me and asked if I would meet him without his dad around. I agreed to meet him for a drink, but I got his dad's approval first. He was happy that his son had a change of heart. I dressed like I would normally dress, in my leggings and matching shirt with sneakers. His son gave me a long, tight hug and said he was sorry for being so evil toward me, and he wanted to get to know me better. He commented on my ankle bracelet and said I was sexy from head to toe.
This man is sexy from head to toe, too. He felt really good in the right places when his body was pressed up against mine. Since that day, he told his dad that he's really impressed with me. He hasn't stopped DMing me, and he started sending me pictures of his outfits, asking what he should wear on dates. This isn't normal, and it's turning me on. He knows exactly what he's doing, and he better quit trying me.
Should I tell my boyfriend what's going on?